5 Job Networking Tips for Introverts

5 Job Networking Tips for IntrovertsNetworking is hard for everyone. Its even harder when youre shy. But shyness and introversion, while very reasonable explanations for why you might be frightened in social situations, arent going to cut it as excuses. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) Here are five things you can do to make yourself more comfortable getting out there, opening up a bit, and knowing what to say during those awkward pauses in conversations with people you dont know.1. Fake fearlessnessStride on up to someone, introduce yourself, and then put the ball back in their court. People love talking about themselves. A simple What do you do? can take the conversational heat off you entirely, at least until you get your bearings.2. Read upThe more well-versed you are in current events and business news, and even whats hot on the bestseller shelves, the easier youll be able to stay fluent while conversing. Youll always have something interesting to contribute, and youll give people a wide range things to say to keep the ball rolling.3. Ask for a secondTheres only so much you can accomplish while mingling in a crowded room. If this is a good contact for you, or youve hit it off particularly well, consider asking your interlocutor to chat over coffee somewhere more relaxed instead.4. Follow upWithin 24 hours, dig that card out of your purse and follow up. An email or a handwritten leide (even better) can really distinguish you, and ensure that youve madeand maintaineda connection. (Victory)5. Know when to fold emSometimes two people just dont have the kind of conversational chemistry required to hit it off. If you can tell its crashing and burning, excuse yourself. A simple If youll excuse me, or Well, I wont keep you will often do the trick.Remember, youre shy, youre not a leper. Take care of yourself in social situations, get your connections made, then go home and relax knowing youve done your work.Building You r Network 5 Tips For Shy Networkers